Control the Controllables – How to Reach Your Big Goals

Are you stuck in a rut, feeling like you’re spinning your wheels and never getting anywhere? It can be discouraging when you feel like you’re not making any progress. But it doesn’t have to be that way – if you take control of what you can control, that’s half the battle.

Let’s take a look at six areas where you can take charge and make meaningful progress towards achieving your big goals.

Attitude – You have complete control over how you approach things. Even when faced with difficult or challenging scenarios, there are always multiple ways to respond and look at the situation. Taking charge of your attitude and choosing to stay positive will give you momentum to keep going even on days where it feels like nothing is going right.

Effort – Do something every single day that moves you closer to achieving your goals – no matter how small it may seem! Focus on building momentum through taking consistent actions each day and don’t forget to celebrate the wins along the way!

Physical Health – Exercise isn’t just important for looking good, it’s also critical for having energy and staying sharp mentally as well as physically. Find activities that bring joy as well as challenge your body, so that it becomes a natural part of your routine rather than something tedious or draining.

Who You Surround Yourself With – The people around us can have an immense impact on our motivation levels, energy levels and mindset about our goals. Spend time with people who motivate and encourage you instead of holding back your potential success with their negative attitude or lack of enthusiasm towards life’s possibilities!

Mindset – A positive mindset is essential for reaching any big goal in life; no matter how big or small they are! Remind yourself why this goal matters so much to you personally, focus on what’s important in life, remind yourself that failure is a part of growth and learning, practice gratitude every day, maintain realistic expectations while staying open-minded to potential opportunities! Make sure that your mental health is taken care of as well — self-care should always be a priority!

Response To Situations – Confront difficult situations head-on by recognizing what is within our control versus what is not and responding accordingly with assertiveness instead of aggression or passivity; speak up for yourself but respect other people’s opinions too; recognize when emotions are at play and find healthy outlets for managing them such as talking with someone about it or writing down thoughts/ideas/feelings in a journal!

Controlling the controllables can help break through plateaus of stagnation so that we can move forward in life with clarity, purpose and direction! Identifying which areas are within our control gives us more confidence in our ability to reach our big goals — no matter how ambitious they may be — because we know we have the resources necessary to make them happen if we put in enough effort & dedication! So tell me – which area do YOU want to work on first?

Take some time today reflect on these items & come up with an action plan so that tomorrow will be one step closer towards achieving those big dreams! Good luck!


The Conversation That Still Haunts Me

I’ll never forget him. A guy I used to work with when I was still driving. Sharp. Dependable. The kind of guy everyone liked. But underneath all that? You could see it—he was empty. Same truck. Same hours. Same paycheck. And the same look in his eyes… Like life had slowly drained the color out…

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