We each have within us the power to impact the world in ways we can hardly imagine. The issue is, too many of us are playing small. We worry about what other people think, and when the going gets tough, we throw in the towel. But here’s the truth: we cannot achieve high impact without letting go of the opinions of others, putting our heads down, and putting in the work.
Here’s how to shift from playing small to making a real difference:
1. Embrace Your Unique Gifts
Every one of us has something special to offer. Whether it’s a talent, a passion, or a perspective, your uniqueness is your superpower. Stop hiding it away because you’re afraid of what others might say. The world needs what you have to offer.
2. Stop Seeking Approval
The moment you stop worrying about what others think is the moment you start living for yourself. Others’ opinions are just that—opinions. They don’t define you. The more you focus on seeking approval, the less energy you have to invest in your dreams.
3. Commit to the Long Haul
Making a significant impact isn’t about quick wins; it’s about staying the course, especially when it gets tough. High impact requires a long-term commitment. It’s not about avoiding the hard times; it’s about pushing through them.
4. Overcome the Fear of Failure
Fear of failure is one of the biggest reasons people play small. But failure is not the enemy; it’s a necessary step on the path to success. Learn from it, grow from it, and keep moving forward. Remember, every setback is a setup for a comeback.
5. Put in the Work
There are no shortcuts to making an impact. It requires consistent, focused effort. Roll up your sleeves, get your hands dirty, and don’t be afraid of the grind. The work you put in today lays the foundation for the impact you’ll make tomorrow.
6. Persevere When It Gets Tough
The truth is, many give up when it gets hard. But it’s precisely in those moments that you need to push harder. Success often comes just after the point where most people quit. If you want to make a lasting impact, you must be willing to keep going, no matter what.
Stop playing small. The world needs your full potential, not a watered-down version of it. Let go of the opinions of others, stay committed to your goals, and put in the work. When it gets hard—and it will—don’t give up. That’s when the real impact begins.
Steve Lofton 
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